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@socks you use matrix in a similar way i would expect to, neat! (i only feel the need for encrypted chats on rare occasions, notably for direct messaging)

fwiw, the E2E device setup has been one of the smoothest parts for me- i can't seem to message another account on my own instance, even on a fresh install 😭
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@Lugrim ouch, i hadn't even considered the cost of searching though encrypted chat... indexing won't save you there 😭
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@rick @Lugrim personally, the model i'd advocate for is a lot more like teamspeak's client/server model, with the open-source touch for good measure. you can bring your own client, connect to any server that speaks the language, and all of these servers are self-contained instances which host only their own data. this prioritises the community instant-messaging aspect that i admire discord for.

(as a funny aside: if it weren't for the "instant-messaging" criteria, i would just start up a forum, LOL)
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@rick @Lugrim i've also seen the weight and complexity of federation first-hand from hosting this very activitypub instance and others before it. state fragmentation is mentioned later in the thread which is one of my key concerns.

if a server goes down, it makes very little sense to me for the rooms to persist on other clients. what if it was permanently shut down? now you have ghost spaces forever. even if it wasn't, i'm not too concerned about patiently waiting for the server to come back up before sending my message- we already have this on discord on occasion and we've all navigated it pretty fine.
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@Lugrim still not supported at all in element though, at least according to this devastating issue i just read 😭

github.com/element-hq/element-meta/issues/339
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@rick @stefan mentioned in another reply, but i'm not sure how i feel about leaning on functionality not supported by all server and client implementations

well, i actually
do know how i feel about that, because it happens all the time on fedi- i find it very annoying to deal with.
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@sleepybisexual doesn't this depend on the client and server? iirc, this isn't baked into the core matrix spec, so software support is spotty at best
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@rick open source is valuable! i'm not 100% sure how much i care about federation in a community chat application though, and my prior experience running a server (both about a year ago and literally two days ago) has been pretty rough, honestly. wish i could say otherwise!
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i'm sure i'm in good company to ask here:

matrix users, what do you like most about the platform? i want to keep an open mind here and see it for its merits, and see if i can work through my personal gripes.
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i think the sad truth here is that matrix just isn't built for discord refugees. and beyond that, while discord was dominating the market, nobody was out here building a solid competitor that isn't just another discord ripoff
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fwiw element has fairly pretty UI but also some really annoying unintuitive interactions (not even a discord transition gripe, just general design)

also are we
still lacking custom emoji support? man......
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in case anyone's curious on my matrix introduction so far:
- set up continuwuity (i previously hosted a conduit instance a while back)
- account created, first space and rooms set up
- add secondary test account
- message invites just don't send
- ???
this persists after db wipes btw
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i really wanna give matrix a solid chance but i don't feel like the community does it any favours

is this what being a fedi/bluesky outsider is like
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really would like to see a discord->matrix transition video that isn't produced by a snarky idgaf internet teenager
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@julia i know a bunch of people who don't want to pay for an individual plan, but would happily pool into a group plan. there's so much wasted opportunity for profit (i thought companies were obsessed with that?)
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@julia and even still, so what if a couple friends overseas wanna get a plan together? you get the same money regardless. i don't get it
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@yassie_j @experiencer @kuriko this is the way
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@halva yeah...my personal observation: fedi has majority queer nerds, so most discourse revolves around queerness. atproto has the tech nerds, so most discourse revolves around the tech. the latter means that generally, tech discourse gets the most heated, and folks who do unfavourable things with the tech get treated like monsters for no good reason
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@halva she literally called him a "hack" for implementing features on blacksky that work exclusively outside the atproto network- i believe for followers-only posts, which blacksky's community deeply desired, and atproto very much Does Not Support out of the box

this is like if a fedi instance implemented a feature outside of the activitypub protocol (as i hear, this happens all the fckn time on fedi), someone called them out for breaking activitypub compatibility, and that someone was then lambasted as being transphobic or some shit