"minor dev note for [app]: i'm using deno, not bun, because julia yelled at me for typing "bun" into my terminal. take it up with her! i'm starting the project with deno "
current vibe: use cinny, join a homeserver, host continuwuity if you're a nerd, join unencrypted rooms, and be happy.
and don't, for the love of god, fall for the joke that is matrix spaces. i get angry every time i'm reminded they exist. such a poorly-supported hack :(
doubling down: unencrypted matrix rooms are the most stable i have joined. federation takes a sec, but then i get to have things like...chat history. not having to worry if i'll still see my messages tomorrow. worthless crap like that!
@partridge i've personally found that forcing people to "toughen up and get over it" when sacrificing quality-of-life does not yield good fellowship. i think we'd rather have people on our side than otherwise.
note that folks on fedi are far more open to trying out niche social media experiences than the average person. discord holds the status quo. people are used to it. you're asking a lot for them to change their experience on there, nor to mind leaving altogether. it's important to be mindful of that.